I did some further research on this by reading two different books about types of men. I quickly realized that Joe was a “dating imposter.” He knew exactly what to say and how to act to win me over. Because of our frequent interaction in a short period of time, I felt like he was falling for me and it made me take down my guard too soon. I started thinking back to all of our times together and then it hit me like a brick: I had ignored the signs he had given that he actually was a commitment-phobic man.